Determining Your Wedding Priorities: A Guide to Your Perfect Day

Planning your wedding is an exciting chapter filled with dreams, decisions, and a whole lot of love. But with countless details to consider, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. At Jacqueline Rae, we believe that your wedding day should be a reflection of your unique love story. That’s why determining your wedding priorities is the cornerstone of creating a celebration that feels authentic, personal, and unforgettable.

"The most beautiful weddings aren’t about following trends—they’re about creating moments that resonate with who you are as a couple. When you focus on what truly matters, the rest will naturally fall into place," shares Jacqueline Delorme, President and Creative Director.

Let’s explore how to identify your wedding priorities and craft a day that’s as meaningful as it is magical.

Why Prioritizing Your Wedding Elements is Essential

Your wedding day is more than just an event—it’s a milestone that deserves thoughtful planning and intentional design. Without clear priorities, it’s easy to get caught up in the details and lose sight of what’s most important. By defining your must-haves early on, you’ll:

Maximize Your Budget: Allocate resources to the elements that matter most.
Streamline Decision-Making: Avoid decision fatigue by focusing on key areas.
Stay True to Your Vision: Create a day that reflects your values and style.

At Jacqueline Rae, we know that every couple is unique. Whether your dream wedding involves a lavish ballroom or an intimate garden ceremony, identifying your priorities is the first step towards making that vision a reality.

Step-by-Step Guide to Determining Your Wedding Priorities

Dream Big, Together

Before diving into the logistics, take a moment to dream with your partner. Picture your ideal wedding day—what does it look like? What emotions do you want to evoke? Write down your shared vision, and use it as a guiding light throughout the planning process.

Pro Tip: Use mood boards or Pinterest to visually map out your ideas. This will help you identify recurring themes and preferences.

Define Your Budget

Your budget is the foundation of your wedding plans. Start by determining how much you’re comfortable spending, then allocate funds to your top priorities. For example, if photography is a must-have, consider investing in a top-tier photographer while scaling back on other areas.

At Jacqueline Rae, we specialize in creating tailored wedding packages that align with your budget and vision. Our expertise ensures that every dollar is spent wisely, without compromising on quality or style.

Rank Your Must-Haves

Sit down with your partner and make a list of wedding elements—venue, catering, entertainment, décor, etc. Rank them in order of importance. This exercise will help you align on shared priorities and avoid unnecessary stress.

Think About the Guest Experience

While your wedding day is about celebrating your love, it’s also an opportunity to create lasting memories for your guests. Consider elements like comfort, entertainment, and personalization. From welcome gifts to interactive photo booths, small touches can leave a big impression.

Trust Your Team

Partnering with experienced vendors and planners is crucial to bringing your vision to life. At Jacqueline Rae, we take pride in curating a team of professionals who share your passion for excellence. From seamless coordination to exceptional design, we’re here to make the process stress-free and enjoyable.

Common Wedding Priorities to Consider

If you’re unsure where to start, here are some popular priorities to inspire you:

Venue: The backdrop for your celebration sets the tone for everything else.
Photography & Videography: Capturing the moments you’ll cherish forever.
Catering: A thoughtfully curated menu can elevate the guest experience.
Design & Décor: From floral installations to custom lighting, these details bring your vision to life.
Entertainment: Live music, DJs, or unique performers can create unforgettable moments.
Guest Comfort: Consider elements like transportation, accommodations, and accessibility for a seamless experience.

Realizing Your Vision with Jacqueline Rae

At Jacqueline Rae, we believe that wedding planning should be as joyful as the day itself. Our process begins with understanding your unique story, values, and vision. From there, we craft a personalized plan that prioritizes what matters most to you.

"Our mission is to deliver a high-touch experience that feels effortless for our clients. We handle the details, so you can focus on celebrating your love," Jacqueline Delorme explains.

With over a decade of experience in luxury wedding planning, our team has had the privilege of designing unforgettable celebrations at iconic venues like Fairmont Palliser in Calgary to Fairmont Banff Springs in Banff, Alberta. Whether you’re dreaming of a grand affair or an intimate gathering, we’re here to make it happen.

Tips for Staying True to Your Priorities

Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff: It’s easy to get caught up in minor details, but remember to focus on the bigger picture.
Be Open to Compromise: You and your partner may have different priorities—find a balance that works for both of you.
Trust Your Instincts: If something doesn’t feel right, it’s okay to pivot. Your wedding should reflect your authentic selves.

Ready to Start Planning?

Determining your wedding priorities is the key to a stress-free planning process and a celebration that feels uniquely yours. At Jacqueline Rae, we’re here to guide you every step of the way, from the first consultation to the final send-off.

Contact us today at to schedule a consultation. Let’s turn your vision into a reality and create a day you’ll treasure forever.